How To Do JOI: Ultimate Guide Making Money Doing Jerk Off Instructions

So…you are wondering How To Do JOI (Jerk Off Instructions)?

Well, don’t worry, this guide will teach you how to do it AND make money from it!

If you are a financial domme (findom), camgirl, or sex worker, you may have heard about it from Twitter or a sub/paypig may have directly asked you about it.

It’s a very common activity in the industry so don’t worry if you don’t know about it yet…

This guide will teach you:

1. What Jerk Off Instruction (JOI) is
2. How To Do JOI
3. And How To Make Money From JOI

…and it’ll be way more comprehensive than anything you’ll see on Reddit or Urban Dictionary.

Okay, let’s get down to the basics and discuss what JOI is.

What is JOI?

If you search on Urban Dictionary or Reddit, you’ll wonder if JOI is a real thing…but it is!

Jerk Off Instruction (JOI) is essentially giving a man (or woman) instructions on how to masturbate.

The instructions are typically verbal, but can also be written or visual (i.e. doing the jerking motion with your hand).

That’s it!

It is a really common activity in the findom community.

So…why in the world would someone be interested in JOI?

Well, lots of paypigs want a more “interactive” masturbation experience. And being told by their fantasy woman about exactly how to jerk off is something that really turns them on.

Now that you know what JOI is, let’s talk about how to actually do JOI and how to make money from it as well.

How to do JOI?

So…how in the world do you tell someone to jerk off?

Well, it is surprisingly simple.

Just imagine you are telling your partner how to stroke.

The idea is to instruct the audience from getting hard all the way to orgasm. And it really doesn’t require a lot of skill or fancy things.

Lots of girls try to over-complicate JOI but you don’t need to do anything fancy.

Let’s break the JOI experience for men into 3 steps.

Step 1 is get him hard

Think of this like foreplay. Show him your feet/hands/ass/boobs (whatever he is into).

And when it comes to JOI you want to be very explicit and direct. So you want to say something like:

• “Get that dick nice and hard for me, loser.”
• “Stroke to my feet. I want that little dick hard as a rock for Mistress.”

Step 2 is to get him close to the edge

Tell him how to stroke and giving visual instructions is good as well.

For example you can say things like:

• “Stroke faster for me, slaveboy. I want you to blow a huge load for me.”
• “Nice and long strokes only. I want to see you leaking.”

Step 3 is to give him the orgasm

That’s right, you want to tell him exactly how you want him to cum.

How?

Well, one way is to give him a cum countdown. It’s basically counting back from 10 and telling him to cum.

So it would sound something like this:

“10…9…8…7…6…5…4…3…2…1…cum for me bitch. Cum for me like the loser that you are!”

Types of JOI To Make Money

So, what kind of JOI types are there?

Well, there are three main types: written, audio, and video.

Let’s go over each in more detail.

1. Written jerk off instructions

Written JOI is basically what you would encounter during a texting session (i.e. on Twitter, Kik, Telegram, Whatsapp, OnlyFans, etc).

In this type of JOI session, you are basically writing down how you want your sub/paypig to stroke for you.

Obviously this isn’t the most interactive but it’s still something that a lot of subs pay for especially if they can’t afford audio or video sessions.

2. Audio

You know how you leave voice messages for your friends, significant other, parents, etc?

Well, you can also leave audio messages for your paypigs and subs/slaves.

The difference is you are telling them how to jerk it!

Now, obviously don’t send JOI audio messages unless they are paying for it. That’s why I find that OnlyFans Pay To View (PTV) messages are perfect for this.

The sub can only access the audio message if they pay for it!

Another thing you can do is also collect money upfront before you send the audio messages.

3. Videos + Skype

Video is the third and final type of jerk off instruction medium you can have.

Now, in this type of JOI there are two types: pre-recorded videos and live video sessions (i.e. Skype)

So let’s go over the first one. Pre-recorded JOI videos are ones where you record them ahead of time and sell them to your customers and paypigs.

How do you sell them? Well, you can sell them on your Clip Sites or also as PTV on OnlyFans (Pay to View).

In addition, you can also do JOI live sessions (think camgirl) on Skype. In these types of live sessions, you tell the slave/paypig how to jerk off and basically instruct him from start to finish.

How to “finish” JOI?

So…how do you finish a jerk off instruction video/session?

Well, there are 3 main types of finishes. And it all depends on what the customer wants!

P.S. the end of a JOI is not always a happy ending…

So let’s discuss each one in detail…

1. Cum (cum countdown)

The usual way you will end a JOI is to give the paypig a “cum countdown”

As I mentioned before, it’s basically a countdown from 10 and at the end of the countdown you will let the slave cum.

Yes, it’s as simple as that!

2. Denial

Instead of the usual cum countdown with a happy ending, you can also end the JOI session with denial.

Yep! Some men LOVE to be denied. These paypigs have a fetish for humiliation. They just love to be told no by a woman.

So in some JOI sessions, you will not let the slave cum at the end.

3. Ruined Orgasm

The final way you can end a JOI session is to give him a “ruined orgasm.”

What’s a ruined orgasm?

Well, it’s basically when you order your slave to remove all stimulation right as he cums. This makes the orgasm not very pleasurable.

This type of finish isn’t super common, but some subs still request it so it’s good to know what it is in case you encounter it.

Some Tips For Doing JOI

Alright, so you want to make money doing JOI with paypigs now…here are some tips to help you on your findom journey!

1. It’s all about the tone of voice

When it comes to being successful with making money with JOI there’s one thing you really need: confidence.

And that really comes from your tone of voice.

What do I mean by that?

You need to sound 100% comfortable with what you’re doing even though it may sound kind of weird. Be confident in leading and giving instructions.

When you give an order with JOI, do it “matter of factly” not like you’re asking a question.

2. Try to be as interactive as possible

The second tip for the day is to be interactive with your paypig/sub when doing JOI (this pertains to live skype session, not pre-recorded videos).

What do I mean by this?

I mean you should ask questions.

How does that make you feel?

Does that make your horny and weak for Mistress?

Do you know what a loser you are?

Asking questions/feedback like this will really get the sub engaged.

3. Don’t be afraid of your accent

The next piece of advice I have for you is to not be afraid of your accent – especially if English is not your first language.

Believe it or not but some guys find foreign accents to be super sexy. In fact, the sub might have sought you out just for your accent!

So don’t try to hide it. Embrace it and even market it as well!

4. Should you use a JOI script during sessions?

Finally, a question I have from many financial dommes (findoms) and camgirls is whether or not you should use a JOI script.

In general, I am not a big fan of using scripts.

Why?

Well, because it sounds unnatural!

Using a JOI script kind of defeats the purpose and sounds robotic.

Other Fetishes To Combine With JOI

When you are making a JOI video or doing a live JOI session, it is very common to combine the jerk off instructions with another fetish.

So here are some common ones to incorporate into your instructions

Foot fetish

As I have mentioned before, the foot fetish is one of the most common types of fetishes out there. In fact, if you are making money off clip sites, the foot fetish category is very big.

So naturally incorporating foot fetish and JOI is a no-brainer!

In this type of combination you want to instruct your sub on how to jerk to your feet.

For example, you can say things like:

• “I want you to jerk to my soles”
• “Just think about how soft my soles feel”
• “Jerk slowly as I wave them around in your face, slaveboy”

Small penis humiliation

Incorporating small penis humiliation (SPH) with JOI is also a great idea.

Basically how this would work is you tell the paypig/sub how small his dick is while giving him instruction to stroke it.

For example, you could say something like:

• “Stroke that shrimp dick to me”
• “I bet it’s so small you only need 2 fingers to do it”
• Come on, stroke faster for Princess. I want you nice and hard and wet for me you little small dick beta.”

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Edging

Combining edging and JOI is also something that a lot of slaves want.

So what is edging?

Edging is just ordering the sub to jerk off until the brink (i.e. edge) of orgasm and then telling him to stop.

That’s why they call it edging!

You can order him to stroke and edge to you 3 or 4 times before finally letting him blow his load with a cum countdown.

Edging provides a lot of anticipation for the sub.

How Much To Charge for JOI Sessions?

So…how much should you charge for JOI?

Well, I will primarily discuss this in terms of:

• Pay per View (PTV) on OnlyFans
• Pre-made videos to be sold on clip sites
• and Skype sessions with JOI

Okay, let’s talk about the first 2: PTV and JOI videos on clip sites.

In general, I would say you should charge at least $1 per minute for these pre-made videos.

For example, if you have a 10 min JOI video, charge at least $10 for it.

Also, if someone asks you to create a custom video for them, obviously the rate should be much higher. In general, I for a custom JOI video, I would charge at least $5 or $10 per minute.

So if the paypig wants a 10 minute custom JOI video, charge at least $50 to $100, Also, be sure to charge extra for a name drop (i.e. if they want you to use his name in the video).

For Skype sessions, I would set a rate of at least $10/minute with a 10 minute minimum session.

How To Do JOI & Make Money – Final Thoughts

Overall, giving JOI is a great way to make money online as a financial domme, camgirl, and/or sex worker.

It’s super simple and you don’t really need any “training”. After a few sessions, you will be a JOI pro!

Hopefully this guide taught how to do JOI and make money doing it.

Good luck out there!