Want to learn how to make money with cashmeets? Well, this guide will teach you how.
As a domme, a cashmeet with a local paypig can be a great way to make extra money.
In addition, you can also record a cashmeet and post it on your social media and paid subscription accounts (like Onlyfans) to profit even more from them.
This cashmeets guide will teach you what a cashmeet is, how do screen paypigs to do cashmeets with, and how to much to charge for this opportunity.
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Okay, let’s get down to business 🙂
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What is a cashmeet?
So, what exactly is a cashmeet?
Well, if you search on Urban Dictionary or Reddit, you’ll come across a few different meanings and definitions of “cashmeet”.
A cashmeet is exactly what it sounds like.
Basically, the domme meets a sub/paypig in public and takes cash from them. Yep, it’s as simple as that!
Now, there are a few different types of cashmeets (which I will discuss), but that is it.
A cashmeet plays to a sub’s financial domination (findom) fetish. So it’s basically a quick meeting to hand a domme money.
Difference between a cashmeet and a femdom/bdsm session?
So, what is the difference between a cashmeet and a femdom/bdsm session (like what you would book with a professional dominatrix)?
While both a cashmeet and session will involve the exchange of cash, a cashmeet will often be shorter than a session.
In general, a cashmeet should last 5 – 10 minutes. In contrast, a femdom/bdsm session may last 30 minutes to a few hours.
Types of cashmeets with your paypigs/subs
There are a few different types of cashmeets you can do. Let’s go over the main ones.
In general, cashmeets involve some kind of public humiliation. It really depends on the sub. Some paypigs really love for you to humiliate them in front of other people.
Other subs/paypigs are more shy and want to be more discreet. That is fine, but just discuss it beforehand so there are no misunderstandings.
1. ATM drains
The first type of cashmeet is the “ATM drain”
Basically this is when you go with your sub to the ATM to have him pull out cash.
In this type of cashmeet, the sub hands you his bank card. Then, you enter in his pin number and pull out the agreed upon cash right in front of him.
After that, he should kneel down and count it and hand it over to you.
Yes, that’s it!
2. Cashmeet drain (no ATM)
Another type of cashmeet is just “handing the money over”. This is like the ATM cashmeet, but the sub has already pulled the money out of the ATM ahead of time.
You meet up at a place of your choosing. I would recommend a semi-public place.
Then your sub will hand the cash over and that’s it! A cashmeet is really a thrilling experience.
3. Foot worship cashmeet
The third type of cashmeet is the foot worship cashmeet.
As I have mentioned before, a foot fetish is one of the biggest fetishes paypigs and subs have. As a result, some guys may request to worship your feet after handing money over in a cashmeet.
This turns the cashmeet into a hybrid between a session and a cashmeet.
Basically the sub will want to worship your feet. This may include massaging your feet, smelling them, and/or sucking/licking your feet and toes.
4. Ballbusting cashmeet
The final type of cashmeet is the ballbusting cashmeet. This is also a very popular type of cashmeet.
So…what is ballbusting?
Well, ballbusting is a type of BDSM fetish where the sub likes to be kicked/punched in the balls.
Yes, they really get off from the pain of getting hit in the balls!
In this type of cashmeet, you kick the slave’s balls after he hands you over the cash. It really plays into the humiliation aspect that paypigs are looking for.
Overall, these 4 of the main types of cashmeets you will probably do. Sure, there are other ones (like one where you can lock a sub in chastity), but those are typically rarer.
How to get paypigs for cashmeets
So, a cashmeet sounds like a great way to make some money, right?
Now you are probably wondering how to get paypigs to do cashmeet…
As I have mentioned many times on this site, the answer is Twitter.
Twitter is the best place to find subs for cashmeets. If you want to be a successful financial dominatrix you need to build a social media following.
Most dommes will announce they are doing cashmeets in a certain or region (i.e. Los Angeles or West Florida).
For example, let’s say you want to do cashmeets in San Diego.
On Twitter, you would write something like:
“Doing cashmeets in San Diego this Friday and Saturday (8/26 – 8/27)
$100 deposit required”
When announcing cashmeets on Twitter, you should always include:
- What city you are doing the cashmeets in
- The dates that you are available
- and the deposit required
In general, I would say you should announce this at least a week in advance so you can schedule things easier.
You can also do cashmeets when you are traveling around for various reasons.
For example, if you are going on vacation, visiting family in a different city, etc. you can announce that you are doing cashmeets in that city ahead of time.
Setting up the cashmeet
Now, before you actually go on a cashmeet you should do two things. This ensures not only your safety, but that the sub won’t flake out.
The first is to get the ID of the sub. A simple photo of his license will be sufficient.
Yes, this is a lot of personal information, but it is for your safety.
This ensures you know who the sub is and if anything happens to you, your family/friends can notify the police.
If the sub is unwilling to provide this information to you, then you should not go ahead with the cashmeet.
Also, keep in mind that a sub is giving you a lot of personal information with his license photo. As a result, be respectful and take proper measures to secure their information.
The second thing you need upfront is a non-refundable deposit.
This ensures that the sub will not flake out on you.
Depending on how much you charge on your cashmeets, I would ask for a $50 to $100 upfront non-refundable deposit.
Make sure your tribute methods are clear so the sub knows where to send the deposit.
Having a deposit requirement really weeds out the fake subs who want to jerk off while scheduling a cashmeet and never show up.
Guidelines for cashmeet safety
So, when it comes to cashmeets you definitely want to keep safety in mind.
You pick the location to meet – ALWAYS. Do not allow the sub to pick a location.
In general, you want to meet during the day and in a semi-public place such as the mall, coffee shop, or even a car.
Also, let one of your friends/family members know where you are going. This way if you do not reply back within a certain amount of time, they know what you were doing.
Remember, your safety is always number 1 when it comes to cashmeets!
How much should you charge for cashmeets?
So…how much can you make from cashmeets and how much should you charge?
Well, very established dommes often charge $1,000+ for a cashmeet and that cashmeet might only last for a few minutes.
Yes, really. I’m not joking at all.
But again, these are top dommes who are really big in the industry and have been around for multiple years while building their brand.
If you are just starting off, I would suggest $200 – $500 for your cashmeets.
This ensures you are getting paid a fair amount for your time and effort.
So, how much can you make from cashmeets? Well, it depends on how often you do them as well.
Some dommes travel a lot or live in a big city with lots of potential real life paypigs available. So they can easily make a few grand a month doing cashmeets.
But if you are in a smaller city, then chances are you won’t be able to book as many unless you travel.
Other ways to make money from cashmeets
So, doing a cashmeet isn’t the only way to make money from a cashmeet.
What do I mean by that?
Well, you can also sell your socks, panties, etc. after a cashmeet. This is a great way to make extra money if you are doing a foot worship cashmeet.
For example, you can charge $300 for a cashmeet and then sell your socks or used panties to the sub for another $100.
In addition, if the sub is okay with being filmed (no face if he is shy), you can also post the video on your Onlyfans for your subscribers to watch.
I would say in-person sessions and cashmeet videos are one of the top videos Onlyfans subscribers want.
As a result, it will often result in an influx of paypigs subscribing to your OnlyFans account.
Not only that, but you can also post small snippets (shortened clips) onto your Twitter profile to get engagement and more followers on Twitter.
Those types of videos often have A TON of engagements (re-tweets, likes, replies, and follows).
How To Make Money From Cashmeets – Final Thoughts
Overall, cashmeets are a great way to make money as a financial domme – especially if you travel a lot.
Not only are cashmeets super fun, but they don’t last long too. In fact, many financial dommes can make a killing doing cashmeet a few times a month.
Hopefully this cashmeets guide will help you schedule your first meet with a paypig.
P.S. if you want another cool way to make some money as a domme, check out this guide on how to do dick ratings!
