What Is Findom (Financial Domination)?
What does findom mean?
That’s pretty much the first thing someone asks me after I see their jaw drop to the floor. What in the world is financial domination?
Well, you can search findom on Urban dictionary, but I’ll save you the trouble.
Basically it is a BDSM fetish where men get off at submitting to a woman and giving money to her. Essentially, the guy wants a woman to take over his finances.
Yep, you heard me! There is actually a fetish where men LOVE (and get hard) when they give money to a woman for NOTHING in return!
Well that’s the basic gist of the fetish…but let’s talk more about it.
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What is findom (financial domination)?
Financial domination (also known as “findom” for short) is a fetish where men willingly give women money for nothing in return.
This is different than a “sugar daddy” where the man expects something (i.e. sex) in return. When it comes to financial domination, the man gets off at submitting to a woman and letting her take over his money.
He doesn’t want anything in return. He doesn’t want sex or anything like that. What he really wants is to be dominated financially and submitting to a woman.
Sometimes this can take the form of a one-time small payment (less than $100), but for financial dommes (or just “dommes”) that are smart, it can transform into a long-term sub relationship.
In these long-term relationships, the man (or “sub” or “slave” or “paypig”) often showers his domme with money in hopes of pleasing her and supporting her luxury lifestyle.
Most dommes and subs negotiate the terms of their relationship. Not all domme/sub relationships are the same.
Some subs just want to be treated like the domme’s friend. While other subs want to be completely dominated and controlled by the domme.
Can you make money as a findom?
So, how does financial domination work? And more importantly can women really make money off it?
Well, let’s answer the second question first.
Yes, women make A TON of money with financial domination. Some women treat it as a job, career, and lifestyle while others treat it as a hobby to make extra money on the side.
Regardless, money can be made from this unique niche. How much do they make? Well, it really depends. The top domme’s are able to easily pull in $300,000+ per year.
Yes, you read that right!
There are a ton of men out there that are very submissive and rich. This is because they are tired of being “in control” during their day jobs and just want to hand the reins off to someone else.
How does financial domination work?
So…how exactly does findom work?
Most findoms actually don’t meet their subs and slaves in person. Some do and some don’t. It’s really a personal preference.
However, most of the money findoms make is actually online. Their subs send them money through a variety of sources like iWantClips, NiteFlirt, and even cryptocurrency like Bitcoin.
Some dommes even like to set their customers up on a “debt plan” or “payment plan”. This means the sub will stick to a payment plan like they would a car loan or a mortgage.
In some cases, dommes will even help their subs budget and cut expenses so they have even more money to spoil their domme.
Finally, slaves often take their dommes on shopping sprees as well. In instances where there is mutual trust and respect between the subs, the domme uses his credit card to make purchases online.
Tribute vs. Sessions
Now, there should be a distinction made in the world of findom between the terms tribute and sessions.
Tribute refers to payments where nothing is expected in return.
In contrast, slaves also make payments for sessions. These are basically where the slave performs acts of humiliation for his domme online.
This can include things like writing humiliating phrases on his body, her make fun of his tiny dick, or any variety of tasks.
Online vs. in real life domination
As I mentioned before, some dommes like to just stick with online findom. However, others like real life financial domination as well.
The later case could involve a variety of activities. The two most popular activities include “cashmeet points” and shopping sprees.
Cashmeet points is just what it sounds like. The domme will take her slave to an ATM and use his card to take out money. There can be other activities mixed in as well.
For example, she could have him kneel down and kiss her shoes while she takes the money from the ATM. It’s all about acts of submission and humiliation when it comes to the findom fetish.
Shopping sprees is a similar activity. In this instance, the slave follows his domme around while she shops at the mall. When it comes time to pay, she signals him to pull his card out!
How to get started as a financial domme?
By this point, you probably want to get started as a financial domme and rinse other men of their money!
However, don’t be fooled. It’s not as easy as simply demanding a random stranger pay up just because you said so.
Becoming a successful financial domme is all about BRANDING! This means you need to know how to present yourself.
Here’s a 5 step guide to get started.
Social media is really key to build your brand for obvious reasons. The two best platforms to build your brand are Twitter and Instagram.
Twitter is great to reach a wide audience and get discovered. All of the top financial dommes use twitter. You also need to post actively, especially in the beginning.
Here are a few tips:
*Show pics: A lot of submissive guys have a foot fetish, so showing pictures of your feet are very helpful..
*Use the right hashtags: Using the right hashtags will get you found by the right people. It’s all about targeting the right audience.
Good hashtags include: #findom, #paypig, #slave, #footfetish, and #femdom.
*Post pictures of your conquests: Slaves like to know you are popular and getting a ton of money from other slaves. As a result, be sure to post pictures of the money you have coming in from accepting tribute from clients.
2. Shooting fetish clips
While shooting clips is not 100% necessary to be successful, I would highly recommend doing this to help build your brand.
Plus, the great thing about clips is that they generate passive income. This means after you finish shooting them, you don’t need to do any more work and the money still comes in.
Clips are a basically just short video clips (5 – 15 minutes) where you cater to specific fetishes. It’s kind of like amateur porn.
Basically, you will cater to various fetishes your subs have like a foot fetish, chastity, ass worship, and so many others.
This is a great way to make money. Many top dommes make $1,000+ per day selling their clips online!
The biggest clip sites to sell your content include:
3. Build a website
To instantly become more professional and established over other dommes, you should get a website right away.
The website doesn’t have to be complicated. In fact, it can just be a few pages telling your customers about you and what you do.
It should also include a few pictures, links to your clip sites, your contact information, and in what ways you accept tribute.
A website is great because it increases the change people will discover your content through Google searches.
Second, it makes you look a lot more established than other dommes who don’t have a website. Credibility and brand are everything when it comes to financial domination!
What is Findom – Final Thoughts
Findom is truly a weird an pretty crazy thing if you really think about it. Findom is all about guys being dominated by women and giving them money with nothing in return.
Many women can (and have) turn this into a full time income career. Many top dommes make over $300,000+ every single year and there’s no reason why you can’t do that if you work hard as well.
